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Attracting the opposite sex is somewhat of a task for some people and once they do attract someone and begin a relationship with them, many jeopardize it by being too clingy. They think that in order to keep their partner’s affection they have to profess their love to them or be around them all the time. Many people go so far as to call their partner several times a day when they are not with them. This type of behavior not only makes you unattractive, but it will lead you down a road to low self-esteem. This is unhealthy for any relationship as well as for your own mental well being.

People don’t want someone who is clingy or who seems desperate for attention. Instead, just be yourself, love who you are, be confident in yourself and allow your partner some space to be themselves. Also, when you are giving your partner space, do not call them several times a day to tell them you miss them or see what they are up to. This is still being clingy and needy and is a total turnoff. When you allow space, trust and confidence to be a part of a relationship, it will bloom and maybe grow into something a little more serious.